Take this quiz to find out why you are single.
There could be many reasons why you're still single. Maybe you're not putting yourself out there enough, or maybe the right person has yet to come along. Take this quiz to find out more about why you're still unattached.
Clearly, some people are single by choice. They just aren't interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single because of the circumstances of their lives. They may have recently gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated endlessly but haven't yet found someone with whom they're truly compatible.
It's a fact that you won't meet anyone if you're alone at home. And yet, paradoxically, you may be so occupied that you self-sabotage your own chances. Whether through overwork, travel, other commitments, or simply because there isn't enough opportunity to meet other units of the same company, it's more common than ever to be constantly socializing but forging no genuine connections. You may well be perfectly satisfied with this situation and realize why you're single without there being any problem needing a solution.
Otherwise, while it's easy to fall back on the notion that you'll meet someone "when the time is right," the fact is that if you want to date someone, you must prioritize your search - at times brutally. That might imply getting up at least twice a week to go on a date or attend an activity with friends where there's a chance of meeting new people. Also, keep an eye out for blind spots. If you just socialize every Saturday morning with coupled-up pals, at the very least ask them if they have any suggestions of individuals they could introduce you to.