Why Am I Single Quiz

Why Am I Single?

Take this quiz to find out why you are single.

There could be many reasons why you're still single. Maybe you're not putting yourself out there enough, or maybe the right person has yet to come along. Take this quiz to find out more about why you're still unattached.

Clearly, some people are single by choice. They just aren't interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single because of the circumstances of their lives. They may have recently gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated endlessly but haven't yet found someone with whom they're truly compatible.

It's a fact that you won't meet anyone if you're alone at home. And yet, paradoxically, you may be so occupied that you self-sabotage your own chances. Whether through overwork, travel, other commitments, or simply because there isn't enough opportunity to meet other units of the same company, it's more common than ever to be constantly socializing but forging no genuine connections. You may well be perfectly satisfied with this situation and realize why you're single without there being any problem needing a solution.

Otherwise, while it's easy to fall back on the notion that you'll meet someone "when the time is right," the fact is that if you want to date someone, you must prioritize your search - at times brutally. That might imply getting up at least twice a week to go on a date or attend an activity with friends where there's a chance of meeting new people. Also, keep an eye out for blind spots. If you just socialize every Saturday morning with coupled-up pals, at the very least ask them if they have any suggestions of individuals they could introduce you to.

1What's your current age?

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20s and under
over 40

2How do you feel about being single?

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Fine, I have more "me" time
I'm used to being single, so it's completely normal
Great but I would like to find someone special

3It's a friday night, where would you most likely be?

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I'm browsing the internet/reading/watching TV
I'm by myself, just enjoying my "me" time
At a club meeting some people!
Anywhere with my friends

4When it comes to relationships...

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I'm inexperienced! I'm still waiting the perfect first date
I only had 1 or 2 serious relationships
I have plenty experience
I'm sort of experienced; I've hung out with some crushes before

5What is your priority in life? (At least for now)

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My career
I don’t know
Fixing my life

6You haven't been on a date in over six months.

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7You can't seem to hold onto a relationship for more than a few months.

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8You always end up attracting the wrong type of people.

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9You don't feel confident when it comes to dating

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10Do you think you can commit to a long term and serious relationship?

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Yes, of course
When the time comes you will
Maybe when you are older
No, not really because you are a loner

11On a scale of 0-10, how difficult is it for you to approach new people and communicate with them? (10 is very difficult)

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12I am more likely to...

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…wait for someone to text me first
…send the first text

13How would others describe you with one word?

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14You’ve got a HUGE crush on someone, how do you let them know you like them?

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Text them and hope they reply
Go up to them in person and just lay down the facts
Get one of your friends to drop a hint
Follow them on all their social media accounts
Wait until they notice me

15What should be the main goal of a relationship?

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Growing into better persons
Becoming more successful
Starting a new life
I don’t know