Am I Happy In My Relationship Quiz

How Happy Am I In My Relationship?

Am I Happy In My Relationship - a quiz to help you determine if you are happy in your relationship.

When you've been together for a long time, there will almost always be fights large (such as when you spend more money than you save) and little (when she forgets to empty the dishwasher once again). Not to mention that, on some days, the sight of your partner might make you want to hide yourself in your room indefinitely—which is one reason why determining if you're actually in an unhappy relationship or marriage may be difficult.

It's natural to be unhappy in a relationship from time to time. But if your feelings become more frequent and prolonged, to the point that your lives are more parallel than interwoven (or you continuously prioritize friends over your partner), this could be an indication of a significant shift. Equally concerning indicators include: If you feel alone even when you're together if you daydream about being single and if all of your discussions devolve into fights (or you just stop fighting).

It can be challenging to know if you're truly happy in your relationship or not. That's why we've created this quiz to help you figure it out! Answer the following questions honestly and see how you score. If you're unhappy in your relationship, don't worry – there is still hope! Just talk to your partner.

It's not always necessary to terminate a relationship when you're unhappy in it. In certain circumstances, therapy and check-ins can help you repair problems. Marriage and family therapist Kiaundra Jackson informed Oprah Daily that while this isn't always the case, it is possible to fix difficulties with therapy and regular check-ins.

It's important to remember that relationships are work. But if you and your partner are putting in the effort, then it's worth fighting for. So ask yourself these tough questions and see where they lead you. The answers may surprise you!

1Are you satisfied with your current relationship?

Choose an answer
Yes, I am very satisfied with my relationship. We have a lot of fun together and we get along great.
No, I'm not satisfied with my relationship. We always argue and I don't feel like he really understands me.

2Do You Celebrate One Another's Wins?

Choose an answer
All the time
Often
Rarely
Almost never

3Do you feel like there is a lack of respect in your relationship?

If you answered yes to this question, it is likely that your relationship lacks the fundamental ingredient needed for a healthy partnership – respect. Without mutual respect, it will be very difficult to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. If you're unhappy in your relationship and don't feel respected by your partner, it may be time to terminate the relationship.
Choose an answer
Yes
No

4Do you feel like there is a lack of communication in your relationship?

If you answered yes to this question, it is likely that your relationship suffers from a lack of communication. In order for any relationship to thrive, both partners need to be able to communicate effectively with each other. When communication breaks down, resentment and misunderstandings are often the result.
Choose an answer
Yes
No

5Was there an episode of physical and/or emotional abuse?

If you answered yes to this question, then your relationship likely isn't healthy. Abuse can take many different forms, including physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. If you're being abused by your partner, it's important to get help immediately. You deserve to be in a safe and healthy relationship!
Choose an answer
Yes
No

6Did your partner ever cheat on you?

If you answered yes to this question, then your relationship is likely not worth saving. Cheating is one of the biggest Relationship deal-breakers there is. If your partner has cheated on you, it's unlikely that they will change their behavior. If you decide to stay in the relationship, you can expect more pain and heartache down the road.
Choose an answer
Yes
No, I'm sure
No (as far as I know)

7Are you bored with your current relationship?

Choose an answer
Yes
No

8Do you sometimes feel like you don't deserve your partner?

Choose an answer
All the time
Often
Rarely
Never

9Does your partner enjoy spending time with you?

Choose an answer
Yes
No
I don't know

10How easy is it for you to talk about your feelings with your partner?

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Very easy
I think it’s easy enough
Slightly challenging
Nearly impossible

11Do you feel alone in your relationship?

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All the time
Often
Rarely
Never

12How Long Have You Been Feeling Unhappy?

Choose an answer
It is a short period of time
For quite a while

13Is Your Unhappiness Something You Can Bring Up To Your Partner?

Whether you are dissatisfied in your relationship or just in this particular time, your emotions must be something you and your partner can discuss openly. If you plan to remain together for a long period of time, life will provide both highs and lows. And some of those downs will push you way down. It is critical to being happy together that you can speak freely about issues and air your feelings with your spouse.
Choose an answer
Yes
No

14Which one describes the intimacy level of your communication with your partner?

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We’re super-intimate
Physically intimate but not emotionally
Emotionally intimate but not physically
We’re not intimate at all

15Does your partner make you feel safe?

Choose an answer
Yes
I felt safe with him at the beginning of the relationship, now it can be different
I don't really feel safe with him
I definitely don't feel safe with him

16Do you and your partner regularly express and show your love for each other?

Choose an answer
All the time
Often
Rarely
Almost never

17Do you feel any change in your sex life?

Choose an answer
No, not really
I think we do it too often
I think we need more of it
We don't have sex anymore (or never had it)

18Do you have common interests?

Choose an answer
Honestly, we have nothing in common
We have several common passions
We have many common passions and interests

19Are you excited about the future of your relationship?

Choose an answer
Yes, very excited!
Yes, kind of
I’m a bit worried
I think we have no future…

20Do you know why you are in this relationship?

Choose an answer
Yes
I guess I do
I’m not sure
No

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