Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend Quiz

Is It Time to Break Up?

Take this quiz to find out if it's really time to break up.

Are you feeling suffocated in your relationship? Are you constantly arguing and not getting along? If so, it might be time to break up. Take this quiz to find out if it's really time to call it quits.

Relationships do not stand still. There are usually ups and downs to deal with. Some issues may be handled, while others might cause you to doubt the relationship itself. Should we break up or stay together? If you're asking yourself if your relationship is salvageable or if it's a sinking ship, this quiz can help you figure out whether it's a salvageable relationship, or if it's a sinking ship.

The fact is that as wonderful as they are, relationships aren't nearly as straightforward as we'd like. There are a plethora of factors that might make it difficult to figure things out. Sometimes you excel in certain ways but not in others. Sometimes everything is ideal except for one minor detail. And sometimes, you think things are going well - but you're not sure if they're good enough.

Our quiz may be useful if you're tired of banging your head against a wall and want to share your frustration with your friends. It will ask you a series of questions about your relationship and provide suggestions based on your answers.

How Does This Quiz Work?

We look for indicators that it's time to call it quits with your partner. The questionnaire contains 20 self-reporting questions regarding your recollections, sentiments, and interactions in the current relationship. The more red flags we discover, the more inclined we are to recommend a breakup to you.

We also recommend you take the following quizzes: Am I Happy In My Relationship Quiz, Am I Being Gaslighted Quiz

1Do you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells around your partner?

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2Do you feel like things are just too difficult and strained?

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3Is anything positive is happening?

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We rarely have anything positive happen anymore
Yes, all the time

4Can you stand the way he makes you feel?

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I can't stand the way he makes me feel
I'm still standing
No, everything is OK with that

5Does your relationship feel one-sided?

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No, it doesn’t
Yeah, it really does
Sometimes it feels this way

6Does your partner constantly blame you?

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Yeah, I feel they do
No, we take responsibility
Sometimes I feel they blame me too much

7How long have you been in a relationship?

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1-2 years
Less than a year
Three years and more

8Do you want to stay together?

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Yes..maybe..I don't know

9What was your first significant problem?

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A casual argument
Whatever it was, it was his fault
Something funny/silly

10When I think about the future of my relationship, I typically feel:

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Very excited about what’s ahead for us
A glimmer of hope about our future together
Nothing in particular, I couldn’t care either way
Pretty pessimistic about it

11How often do you fight with your partner?

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We rarely have a disagreement.
Every now and then we’ll squabble.
We argue fairly often
24/7. We can’t agree on anything

12Do you feel like your boyfriend has forced you to change a lot?

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Not really
Yes, in a good way
Yes, in a bad way
I changed him the way I wanted

13How do your friends feel about your relationship?

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They're always telling me how cute we are!
I haven't seen my friends in weeks. I'm just too excited about my relationship, and my boyfriend meets all of my needs anyway!
My friends all have different opinions. Some are supportive, a few keep going back and forth with their opinions, and some even think it's time to break up.
They hate him. They really want us to break up for some reason!

14What does he make you feel lately?

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Angry and upset
I don’t know, the same as usual?
Happy but bored (kind of bored)
Scared, helpless and alone
100% Happy

15When you think about him and your relationship, what color comes to mind?

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16How often do you talk to him?

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Every day. We’re still totally in each other’s lives
Not that often anymore, it’s like we’re becoming strangers
Less often than before, but still often enough
We don’t talk

17What’s stopping you from breaking up with him?

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Fear. Fear that it’s a mistake and I’ll regret it
I’m not sure, to be honest. Something inside me just can’t let go
The fact that I’m not sure if I want to break up with him yet and don’t want to do something i’ll regret.
He makes me feel like if I do it, i will never be able to find the same kind of love

18Are you afraid of being alone?

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Yes. It’s why I’m still HERE in the relationship. Ugh..
No, I’m not!
Kind of

19How quickly does he text back?

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Usually right away
Usually in a couple hours
Sometimes not for whole days

20Do you ever think that he is with you just for the sex?

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We don't have sex